Like most things 2.0-related, I have mixed feelings about lurkers and anonymous users. I tend to be a lurker in most on-line communities that interest me. I seldom feel like I want to participate or have a conversation. I'm usually content to lurk. Part of this is because I'm a huge privacy freak and we usually need to register to be able to leave comments and actually participate in online communities. With sites like Spokeo and pipl.com that search, retrieve and then publish online our personal information that we reveal when we fill out our personal profiles on sites like Amazon and Facebook. It irritates and offends me so I try to reveal as little info as I can about myself ina ny online community. Sometimes this is inconvenient. For example, I read and rely on the customer product reviews on Amazon. There are times when I'd like to returnt he favor by posting my own feelings about something I've purchased, but I don't do it because I don't want to reveal any personal information about myself - or the accompanying emails and purchase suggestions that I'll receive afterwards.
I feel the same way about anonymous users. If I were going to comment in an online community, I would want to do it anonymously in order to guard my privacy. But because people can post anonymmously, some take that as a green light to post whatever disgusting, offensive, hateful thought they have. Sometimes I'll read an news item and usually I don't read the comments. Sometimes I can't help myself, though, and I'll be telling myself, "Don't do it, don't do it, don't do it, don't do it," the entire time as I scroll down to the comments. I always regret it. You see some of the ugliest sides of human nature this way and it's disheartening, disappointing and despicable.
Privacy is a big thing for
Privacy is a big thing for me, too, Susan. Like you, I tend to observe rather than comment. I like reading product reviews, bu have to take them with a grain of salt, because a lot of times there is an underlying agenda. I guess I sound cynical. But, that's freedom of speech. I don't like having to give out my email address because, as you mentioned, I don't like getting the resultant span that inevitably follows.
Commenting in an online community can open a Pandora's box. Once you make a comment, it's viewable by everyone. Even the wing-nuts. There are those who feel compelled to expound their knowledge on everything -- even if they know nothing about the subject of their comments.
However, it can also be a good thing. Recently, one of our local fire fighter/EMTs retiresand I made a comment on the newspaper blog page about how she helped my wife and me when my wife fell on our deck. I was the first to comment on the story. What followed was an outpouring to positive comments and stories similar to ours.
I guess there is good and bad with online communities; as others have mentioned (both here and in the readings) good moderators set the tone.
"good moderators set the
"good moderators set the tone"
agreed! moderation: it's not just for alcohol anymore!
Hi Susan, I also tend to be
Hi Susan,
I also tend to be more of a lurker and hold myself back to not reveal too much about myself on online communities. Most of the time for me, I feel like time is also a major factor holding me back from contributing more in online communities. I feel like the last few years while I have been doing my degree online I like to spend the least amount of time as possible on the computer because I am already spending so much time using the computer for schoolwork and at work.
Sherri
Very good point! Privacy is a
Very good point! Privacy is a bit part of why I don't participate more, but time is a huge part of it, too! I have read many Yelp reviews, but only resgistered for an account and posted my first review recently for my screencast assignment. But I think now that I have opened an account and can submit reviews, I probably still won't do it because I feel too busy.
After I graduate, I think I probably will write some reviews, though. And for sure I'd like to create a Wikipedia entry for my favorite local park, an under-utilized treasure of acres and acres and acres of rolling hills. It's a great park but hardly any information about it exists online.
Susan, you brought up
Susan, you brought up something I hadn't even thought about in terms of a registration process/being a member of an online community even though I had the same reaction you had when I faced it in real life: the spam emails! I think this is a good thing to keep in mind if and when we form our own online communities. Even if the organization thinks that the information it is sending out via these emails is helpful, it should allow the user to choose whether or not to receive these sorts of notices.
Oh I know what you mean about
Oh I know what you mean about newspaper websites. It's painful to read the comments, but it's like looking at a car wreck -- you can't look away. Newspaper sites I think are the clearest examples online of why it is important to have good moderation in any online community. Local newspapers could be amazing spaces to discuss local issues, but they have degenerated into spaces for spewing of vitriol. Moderation could fix this, but most newspapers have not made an effort to do this. If a media outlet is not willing to hire someone to dedicate themselves to creating a civilized atmosphere in the comments, they probably shouldn't allow commenting at all.
It both breaks my heart to
It both breaks my heart to read those hateful comments and angers me that human beings could be so hateful in their writing. It all makes me realize the power of words: the power to break my heart and anger me, plus the power it gives those hateful writers. Those hateful writers must feel very un-empowered in other aspects of their life, that they resort to venom in the comments box.
And it would be such a better situation if the newspapers would be willing to sponsor more and better moderation, but given the precarious world of newspapers these days, I guess we're lucky that they have enough employees to function on a basic level. LA Times recently announced MORE layoffs. Yikes.
Susan, thank you for bringing
Susan, thank you for bringing up the issue of privacy in online communities! I, too, am a luker or anonymous poster more often than not due to privacy concerns. It's a relief that we do sometimes have the option of posting anonymously, but I also get disguisted with the people who abuse this... The anonymity of the internet can often bring out the worst in people.
Being a lurker and doing
Being a lurker and doing online has been quite a challenge. Each semester, each class requires me to sign up for various sites/organizations. I use to have a notepad by my laptop just to keep track of all the usernames and passwords I've created. One big issue I have with a lot of these online communities, is that even when don't check the box about getting emails I still somehow manage to get them! Ugh!!
Also, I very rarely contribute to comments because I am afraid of how people are going to respond to my comment. Like you, I don't like looking down at the comments because while I think many people's comments add values, there are just as many "crazies" out there that represent the worst of mankind.
I've also noticed that one of the few times I do take part in online discussions is when I have strong feelings regarding feedback. For example, this past December my family and I had plans to fly to New York the day after the blizzard hit. We had a horrible experience at the airport and with the airlines, but there was one person who went over and beyond her job duties to help fix our trip. I posted everywhere I could about how horribly the situation was handled but I made it a point to contact the airlines directly to tell them how wonderful that person was.
It has always been a delicate
It has always been a delicate balance for most people to decide when to participate in the discussion. Opining is, I believe, a natural tendency for most people and that partially explains the success of web 2.0. The next step for the social network is to somehow make people feel there is something to be gained by participating in the discussion.